Today we talk about purging the sentimental stuff, from ball gowns and family heirlooms to someday projects that never seem to get done. How do you decide what stays, what goes, and how do you let go of things that carry memories without feeling guilty about it?
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Tales from the Prepper Pantry
- 49 jars of green beans put up, with four more jars worth coming out of the garden
- Using the Presto electric pressure canner alongside the regular pressure canner to get more done
- Purging old food from the pantry that we simply don’t eat anymore
- Cooking with what we grow: squash, pork, homemade tomato sauce, herbs, garlic and onions
- What regenerative soil does for the flavor and nutrition of the food we grow
- Getting a “second flush” of cream by letting the raw milk sit longer before skimming
Frugality Tip
- It’s clearance season for gardening and summer supplies
- Look for deals on hoses, sprinklers, connectors, grills, pools and plants
- Back-to-school season also means deals on office supplies
- Stocking up on good journals while prices are low
Operation Independence
- Picking a huge batch of green beans from Trippy Acres
Main Topic: Purging the Sentimental
- How sentimental stuff quietly turns your home into storage for decisions you don’t want to make
- Why grief can turn us into repositories for family heirlooms nobody else wants to deal with
- Stuff begets more stuff: once you’re the person who says yes, everyone knows where to send the family heirlooms
- The ball gowns I loved, wore, no longer fit into and finally decided to let go
- Giving the original giver the right of refusal when something may still matter to them
- Being grateful for a gift does not mean you have to store it forever
- Letting go of useful things that are no longer the right things
- Why keeping the old thing until you replace it can leave you surrounded by worn-out shoes, furniture and other junk
- Getting rid of something can force you to finally find the solution you actually want
- Looking at what you want to do in a space before deciding what deserves to stay there
- Why boxes of old technology, cables and unused cameras are keeping me from having my sewing table
- If something can easily be replaced for $20–$50 and you haven’t used it, consider letting it go
- Trusting that you can get what you need when you actually need it
- Keeping things because Grandpa or Grandma made them, even when you don’t particularly like them
- Taking a picture when you want to preserve the memory without preserving the object
- Choosing the sentimental things you genuinely love instead of keeping every sentimental thing
- Keeping Grandpa’s ironwood roadrunner instead of every object he made
- Vintage clothing, family glassware, quilts and other inherited things that carry emotional weight
- If another relative will be upset when you get rid of something, give them the opportunity to take it
- Don’t transfer your guilt by forcing sentimental things onto someone else
- How physical clutter, financial clutter, paper clutter and mental clutter feed one another
- Clearing things out has created more than physical space—it has created space in my brain and in my day
- Making room for the things I actually want to do: swimming, singing, playing piano and writing songs
- Getting rid of the someday projects
- The broken chair you’re someday going to repair
- The supplies you bought for a project six months ago and still haven’t used
- Buying supplies for the project you’re actually going to do now instead of the one you might someday do
- The emotionally difficult someday projects, including an embroidered pillow cover my grandmother intended for a baby I never had
- Either do the thing or make a decision about the thing—don’t let it live forever in a someday pile
- Why centering your identity in old memorabilia can keep you looking backward instead of building your future
- You can appreciate the memories without allowing the objects attached to them to control your space
- It’s okay to be ruthless
- Keep the things that genuinely matter. Preserve a picture when that’s enough. Give things to people who actually want them. Then move forward.
Reference Links
Living Free in Tennessee LivingFreeInTennessee.com
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